SIX FOOLISH HABITS OF BABY HUSBANDS

Six things are common to all baby husbands who show the level of their wisdom and exposure. Men must use this as a checklist and stop being childish.

1. FOOD REJECTION: - Many men are fond of this foolish habit. Whenever they are angry with their wives, they show their displeasure by not eating the food their wives prepare. You are owner of the food and the food was prepared in your house. Yet, you reject it. This is foolishness of the highest order.

2. KEEPING MALICE: - Keeping malice with your wife whenever you are angry with her is another childish behaviour. In fact, there are situations when they turn deaf ears when their wives move for reconciliation. If there is a misunderstanding, settle it with your wife.

3. CONSTANT OUTBURST OF ANGER: - Unchecked anger which makes you call your wives all sorts of names and say unprofitable things like threats of divorce, separation, beating is not an attribute of a real man.

4. NOT SUPPORTING THEIR WIVES AT HOMES:- More than 90percent of African men do nt raise a finger at home to do any house chores, care for the baby, help the children with their homework, attend Parent Teachers Association (PTA) meeting or carry the baby when the baby cries. Irrespective of what the woman is doing, she must abandon it to cater for the baby, while the man keeps himself busy watching television, reminding the woman to bring his food. When asked the reason for such negligence, he is likely going to say one or more of the followings:

§  I am the head of this family

§  My father never did it for a woman

§  In our culture, men don't do anything at home

§  My wife will begin to take me for granted if I help her at home

§  She will disrespect me if I do

§  It is not manly to do

§  I make the money, let her do the cooking

§  I am too busy

§  I don't know how to cook

§  What will the neighbours say when they see me doing something for her. etc

 Men, wake up. Be a real man; support your wife at home. Put your biceps and triceps to use. Don't turn your wife into slave. It is childish to do so.

5. REPORTING THEIR WIVES: - It is inappropriate to report your wife to your friends, colleagues, neighbours, family members, whenever there is a misunderstanding. You should be mature enough to handle your own family. A real man respects his wife and will seek to settle the disputes quickly. He doesn't shout at the woman. People you are reporting to may even have bigger family problems in their hands to deal with.

6. WIFE BATTERING: - One of the most foolish things a man can do is to beat a woman he claims to love and promised to protect. Any man who beats his wife is a beast. Grow up and give your lovely wife peace of mind.